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Old 01-30-12   #12
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Default Re: Thughts on why you shouldn't cast a love spell...

One last note, for full disclosure: I don't get the whole, "sex is SOOOO important for every relationship, and that's how you know you're in love, and also, if you have LOTS of sex, you'll love each other MORE!!" thing.
A thought for consideration - this type of thinking could easily be a learned behavior as a result of sexual abuse, a child witnessing sexual acts and/or abuse, observing a parent who operates this way, an attachment disorder...and something a person will have to unlearn in order to have any chance at a "normal" relationship.
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